“Memory is a snare, pure and simple: it alters, it subtly rearranges the past to fit the present.”

– MARIO VARGAS LLOSA The Storyteller

It’s good to acknowledge that you found true happiness in your life – in that sense your life has not been wasted. But to admit you will never be happy like that again is hard.

– WILLIAM BOYD Any Human Heart

…some people go skimming over the years of existence to sink gently into a placid grave, ignorant of life to the last, without ever having been made to see all it may contain,…

– EVAN S. CONNELL Mrs. Bridge

“When life is a weariness and escape impossible, it is wonderful to have a friend who can bring us peace with the touch of a hand.”

– HALLDOR LAXNESS Independent People

“But having sex is a fact and describable, while making love is an illusion and indescribable.”

– GORE VIDAL Two Sisters

“I miss the sweet specificity of marriage, its firm ballast and sail.”

– RICHARD FORD The Sportswriter

Still, life had a way of adding day to day.

– VIRGINIA WOOLF Mrs. Dalloway

“Happiness isn’t relative, any more than suffering is. No one is going to feel grateful that his life isn’t any worse.”

– MARTIN AMIS London Fields